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Keep attraction alive in my 12-year marriage

LEARNING PLAN

Keep attraction alive in my 12-year marriage

Long-term relationships naturally experience fluctuations in attraction and connection over time. This learning plan offers evidence-based strategies for couples seeking to revitalize their marriage, particularly beneficial for those in committed relationships of 10+ years who want to intentionally cultivate lasting desire and intimacy.

ByCommunity User
4 h 11 m
12 coursesUpdated 16 hours ago
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How This Learning Plan Was Made

This plan was crafted by BeFreed's proprietary AI to help you learn Keep attraction alive in my 12-year marriage with ease. It is curated from in-depth research on the topic and structured around the most effective learning journeys proven by BeFreed users.

Each episode delivers bite-sized, high-impact lessons distilled from world-class sources — bestselling books, research papers, and expert insights. Together, they form a sophisticated yet accessible path to mastering Keep attraction alive in my 12-year marriage.

What You'll Learn

  • Understand the psychological foundations of long-term attraction and desire
  • Master daily practices that transform routine interactions into opportunities for connection
  • Develop skills to maintain both physical and emotional intimacy
  • Learn techniques to navigate life transitions while preserving attraction
  • Create a marriage that grows more passionate and connected with time

Understand the science behind long-term desire and how emotional connection serves as the bedrock for sustained attraction in marriage.

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